Family Dinner
We need to set up good rules for the internet, the phones, and any other devices in our homes. We need to have a certain part of the house that is considered the charging station so that our kids don't end up all night on their phones. The phones shouldn't be allowed during school days, during family dinner, or FHE. We need to use these devices for good. In an article titled "Keeping Safe and Balanced in a Google-Youtube-Twitter-Facebook-Ieverything World from LDS.org it has some great views on devices.
- They can keep us in touch with loved ones far away—and isolate us from those in our own homes.
- They can save us time in paying bills and reading the news—and consume it in answering e-mails and posting status updates.
- They can help us study and share the gospel—and cause us to idle away our time and drive away the Spirit.
- They can mobilize us to serve others—and keep us self-absorbed, focused on an unending stream of meaningless minutiae.
- They can educate, energize, elevate, and inspire us—and they can distract, enervate, addict, and destroy us.
It
is no coincidence that FamilySearch and other tools have come forth at a
time when young people are so familiar with a wide range of information
and communication technologies. Your fingers have been trained to text
and tweet to accelerate and advance the work of the Lord—not just to
communicate quickly with your friends. The skills and aptitude evident
among many young people today are a preparation to contribute to the
work of salvation.
I
invite the young people of the Church to learn about and experience the
Spirit of Elijah. I encourage you to study, to search out your
ancestors, and to prepare yourselves to perform proxy baptisms in the
house of the Lord for your kindred dead (see D&C 124:28–36). And I urge you to help other people identify their family histories.
As
you respond in faith to this invitation, your hearts shall turn to the
fathers. The promises made to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob will be
implanted in your hearts. Your patriarchal blessing, with its
declaration of lineage, will link you to these fathers and be more
meaningful to you. Your love and gratitude
for your ancestors will increase. Your testimony of and conversion to
the Savior will become deep and abiding. And I promise you will be
protected against the intensifying influence of the adversary. As you
participate in and love this holy work, you will be safeguarded in your
youth and throughout your lives."
I want these promises for my kids. They may still be a little young but I need to get them excited it about it now so that they can get involved in this work later in their lives.
Not only should we have good boundaries online but we also need to be careful what we post online. These three Youtube show that very well.
We need to protect our family in a world that is very distracting and trying to destroy our families.
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